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I'm really annoyed today.

Today I got a call from a friend who has worked many years, successfully and without incident, as the head of security for several schools.  Today, for doing the right thing, he got canned. 

Technically, he's being fired for putting his hands on a child. Apparently he was not supposed to interfere until either (A) a child attacks another or (B) the child attacks a faculty member, and the 'excuse' of him endangering himself isn't good enough for his employers. The full story goes something like this:

Two kids were yelling it out across a hallway, looking like they were going to duke it out.  He steps between the two.  One of them insults the other and walks off.  The other, not wanting to chase after the kid in view of the chief of security, begins flailing his arms right next to a plate glass window. Seeing the obvious potential danger, he steps in from behind and does a policeman's hold.  One arm across the stomach, one locking the right arm. He talks the kid down, quietly, and takes him off to the side into a break center to sit down and talk things out further.  He resolves the situation, and goes to talk to the teacher about the other kids continued harassment of the kid he talked to.  The kid had no issue with what he did at all.

When he arrives, the office is in an uproar.  I arrived maybe ten minutes later.  I get to watch the video they are screaming at him about, and the principle asks me, as his friend, to explain why he has to be fired over this. All I could manage to say was "Because the leaders of the next generation are spineless cowards afraid of defending someone doing his job against litigation."

When did this type of mentality invade school management?  I'm just curious.
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Re: Stupidity manifest: Or how one gets fired for doing the right thing.
« Reply #1 on: November 05, 2007, 06:52:34 PM »
i feel bad saying this, but.... catholic school?
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Re: Stupidity manifest: Or how one gets fired for doing the right thing.
« Reply #2 on: November 05, 2007, 07:13:07 PM »
Pathetic :/


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Re: Stupidity manifest: Or how one gets fired for doing the right thing.
« Reply #3 on: November 05, 2007, 07:22:59 PM »
I blame zero tolerance policies in general.

Seems like the kid got a pretty fair treatment. We got rulers along our fingers and a paddling. The bad kind. Not the kind BC pays for.
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Re: Stupidity manifest: Or how one gets fired for doing the right thing.
« Reply #4 on: November 05, 2007, 07:58:28 PM »
I went to public school. If the guy had thrown the kid through the plate glass window he'd be fine, as long as he planted a few comic books on the kid and said he was wearing a trench coat.

Then again there's that whole video thing.

But yeah, that's retarded. I figured his job would be to keep the kid from killing himself on pointy glass. I would have fought it. But then again I'd have nothing better to do if I'd just lost my job.
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Re: Stupidity manifest: Or how one gets fired for doing the right thing.
« Reply #5 on: November 05, 2007, 08:38:22 PM »
i feel bad saying this, but.... catholic school?

Public school in Montgomery county, Maryland.

As for the other questions, he is tempted to fight it, he has grounds to.  But by the same token, he doesn't want to work with people who are that unwilling to go to bat for him in the first place.  He doesn't even care enough to sue, cause he'd rather be over and done with it.
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Re: Stupidity manifest: Or how one gets fired for doing the right thing.
« Reply #6 on: November 05, 2007, 09:02:26 PM »
=blink=

Thats one mentally disturbed kid. Who flails these days?
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Re: Stupidity manifest: Or how one gets fired for doing the right thing.
« Reply #7 on: November 05, 2007, 09:54:35 PM »
We got rulers along our fingers and a paddling. The bad kind. Not the kind BC pays for.

Well, it's not like I pay a lot.
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Re: Stupidity manifest: Or how one gets fired for doing the right thing.
« Reply #8 on: November 05, 2007, 09:59:47 PM »
As Doombot mentioned, ZT is no doubt largely responsible. It's having an affect on everyone, both adults and students these days.
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Re: Stupidity manifest: Or how one gets fired for doing the right thing.
« Reply #9 on: November 22, 2007, 06:16:43 AM »
i feel bad saying this, but.... catholic school?

Public school in Montgomery county, Maryland.


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Re: Stupidity manifest: Or how one gets fired for doing the right thing.
« Reply #10 on: November 22, 2007, 04:09:48 PM »
Seems like the kid got a pretty fair treatment. We got rulers along our fingers and a paddling. The bad kind. Not the kind BC pays for.

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Re: Stupidity manifest: Or how one gets fired for doing the right thing.
« Reply #11 on: November 22, 2007, 05:55:29 PM »
litigation.

There's your problem right there.

Blame parents who sue schools.

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Re: Stupidity manifest: Or how one gets fired for doing the right thing.
« Reply #12 on: November 24, 2007, 01:25:06 PM »
The high school my kids go to has 6 local police officers stationed there at all times, aside from a 12 man security team. Nobody enters the building without showing a picture ID and they scan it when you go in, and give you a visitors pass. They even bring the canine unit in once a week or so to make sure nobody is stashing stuff in their lockers. All this , and they can still buy weed at school with no problem. If someone from a gang harrasses them, they keep their mouth shut. The poor teachers are the ones that take the brunt of it all.:( They get told to "fuck off" when told to pay attention, kids throw desks, chairs, knives in some cases. It's time to give the control back to the adults. Too many ppl today don't discipline their kids, hell, some don't even watch them.:(
Personally, I liked it better when the gym coach could/would kick your ass all the way to the principals office if you misbehaved.
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Re: Stupidity manifest: Or how one gets fired for doing the right thing.
« Reply #13 on: November 27, 2007, 01:01:48 AM »
Or maybe suspend/expel kids who just aren't cutting it.  Let the parents deal with them full time until they realise that they really do need to take some responsibility for their kids' behaviour.
If it means the kid misses enough classes to be held back a year, they get held back a year.  They get taught a valuable lesson about consequence AND have the chance to learn all the lessons they weren't paying attention to the previous year.

The concept of "free education" is a major downfall.  I don't know if it's the schools saying "They're not paying for it, so I'm not teaching them any more than I have to" or the parents saying "My child is smart enough to go through school, I don't care if they're illiterate" but somehow there are a whole lot of kids getting to high school who can't read fluidly.  Most are beyond the "sound the word out" stage, but still have to read each word individually before stringing the sentence together.

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Re: Stupidity manifest: Or how one gets fired for doing the right thing.
« Reply #14 on: November 28, 2007, 06:16:05 AM »
My dad is always afraid of being sued over something he's had to do to solve a situation with kids. I know he's had to physically lift a child up and carry him to the office to wait for his parents. Even though he's the principal and knows exactly how far he's allowed to do whatever, there's always some insane-o parent willing to threaten because their special little angel was "mistreated" (read: properly handled) =P

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