It must be that time of year again. I got a notice yesterday for an appearance in court, for support. It's a warrant review, which means, they will make me wait 1 hr. 1/2 , just to go before the judge and say, "Yes, I want my $33,000 back child support." I have to jump through all the hoops and make sure I've done my research, b/c if the county lawyer had to actually put out some energy making calls, we might just make some headway! 10 mf'ing years waiting for him to pay support and all they keep telling me is "M'am we know where he lives, but we can't get him to come out of his house." WTF? These ppl are stupid if they expect me to believe that my ex hasn't come out of his house in over a year. His wife always says he's not home. Well, d'uh! Of course she's gonna lie, b/c her husband has to come up with $30,000 or go to jail. Personally, I wish I knew Dog the Bounty Hunter at times like these, and usually I can't stand that guy. lol! My ex is afraid of biker types.
Add to that, we got the news that my mother-in-law has been moved to a nursing home.
My sister-in-law has let up on her b.s. and has even started talking to her brother and me ,finally, after 11 yrs.. It's still all a mess, with a lot of the siblings thinking they're putting their mark on what belongings of their mothers they can have, or they feel they are entitled to. My poor husband is just pissed off that some of his brothers and sisters are that friggin petty and uncaring.
My Mom isn't doing so hot in Arkanasas, so I'm worried about her too. My Dad just lost his sight in one eye, so he is limited as to what he can do as well. I'm torn between moving to help take care of my parents, and staying here, so my husband can be with his Mom. I hate this double edged sword shit.
