I've made some major changes in my life, starting back in late November. My husband and I seperated for good finally. It was a long time coming and very necessary. It got to the point where it was effecting me both emotionally and physically, so I got rid of the problem. It's just me and the kids and we're ALL a lot happier. For the past several months I've done a lot of soul searching, and getting back in touch with me, not who my husband wanted me to be. Went on a couple dates, both were nothing to write home about, so I've been going solo since early January...and I'm fine with that. Not willing to jump into anything. We all know my ability to find trouble and thats what I would like to avoid
I've been friends with a really great guy for over a year now, but the past month or so, we talk several times a day on the phone, and I only see him once in awhile, but never on a date. For now, I'm taking it one step at a time....baby steps. I've learned from past mistakes, to look before I leap...and there's always a line that should not be crossed. Hell, I didn't cross the line, I used to play chicken wth Mack trucks. Older and wiser...I've stopped playing in the road. Kind of enjoying being me again, it's been about 20 yrs. since I knew who that even was, and it took me awhile to remember that. NO BC it's not alzenheimer's. <(beat ya to the punch). Just touching base and letting you guys know whats been going on in my life.